Striaght from heart!!

hmmmm for ppl who knw i ll never come across as a person who thinks a lot!!not dat ppl arnd me thinks i m dumb(which obviously m not, incase u were wonderin!;))!!but they wud never believe dat at 1am in d morning i ll be thinking abt thm n sneakin a look in my life, thinkin how important or not dey r to me!!

b4 any of u, who knws me gets, angry.........lemme assure u guys dat all of u r important to me.........to those who dont knw me u guys r also important to me,dat too for 2 reasons!!one u guys r readin my blog :P..............n second......my frenz n u guys r the reason dat i m writin 2day!!

i was wonderin how ppl in general affect us!!
one thing is for sure evrytym we come across sm1 we ve our own(i mean u cant ve ne other person's) perception of dem.........n thn we start expecting things frm thm!!

these expectation cud be nethng frm dem expecting u to say hi(usually in case of meeting sm1 for first tym), or expecting u to do gud in exams or job(ppl who care abt you...most of the tym parents, siblings, frenz), evn sm ppl will be expecting u to drop dead(dont evn think abt denying it....if not dead thn atleast sm injury.....no matter physical or mental)!
wat wud our lyf wud ve been if these guys were not thr.........yes maybe we wud ve never felt ne pressure......like to look gud or excel in watevr we do! BUT thn wud we had felt the same sense of achievment?? like in case of job whn u r promoted no doubt dat u r very happy......but how wud u ve felt if thr was no one to share this happiness with!!i mean if ppl dont expect nethng frm u den dey wont care wud dey??

if i was in the situation i can say for sure dat i wud ve felt lost, disappointed, evn unwanted at times!!
evry1 arnd me irrespective of wat dey except frm me.....makes me want to become better individal!!n its not for just sm selfish reason but coz i care abt ppl who love me......ppl i knw,who will always be thr no matter wat i m!! for ppl who disapprove of me.......to show thm wat i m......how m i a better thn dey evr will be!!;)

its not a moral lesson.......but give ppl arnd u a min!!b4 complainin dat dey r puttin you under pressure, expectin too much to do well in lyf........just imagine wat if dey dey never cared!!

But dont forget dat whn u expecting smthng frm others.........be sweet to thm!!
dont expect too much(not hypocrisy dear......just put urself in dere shoes)........n let thm knw dat u care n will always be there!
let thm knw how imp dey r to u!!

like every1 arnd me is to me!

god bless

'J'

P.S.thnx for readin evn whn i m being my crazy self!!